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IT WORKED.

(My friend Candace at https://dandelionseeds.substack.com/ draws sketch-essays - a few of them formerly for Longreads - so her stuff is about 75%, but I don't think she ever went fully text-pants-off. I'll let her know.)

Also - and I know this is just one case study - aged 49, after a decade of going uphill, I was ready to give up being a writer. 50 was where I decided to try again except differently, and now I'm 52 I seem to be the writer I always wanted to be, but never was. My fifties unlocked it. No idea how. But I'm in.

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I was just about to say that this literally took my breath away when I saw your lovely comment as well, Mike 🙏 Jenny, this is *stunning* and I so hope you’ll share more like this soon.

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Kelsey just had a post that reminds me a little of Candace’s work but in her own style: https://open.substack.com/pub/kelceyervick/p/saying-yes-to-big-magic-and-creative

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HOORAY HAI CANDACE, I didn't know you were reading Jenny, but of course I should have guessed.

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HAI! And but of course! If it’s illustrated storytelling, then you know I’m here for it 😍

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Did you ever see my excellent illustrated book called “The Strange, Sad Story of Al’s Cheeseburger?” You inspired me to post it, even though I got an “F” on it for the class assignment. https://switters.substack.com/p/the-sad-strange-journey-of-als-cheeseburger

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It worked and it is beautiful!! In all the ways! I’m 68 and can tell you that ‘downhill’ is lovely!

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I just turned 57 and if the last few years have been downhill, it's an almost unnoticeable decline - the kind of shallow hill you can roll down gently on your bike. Yes, it's a little harder to get out of my comfy chair in the evening, but I'm also more comfortable in my skin and don't feel like I have to justify who I am as much as I used to.

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At 59, I'm with you all the way on this. I'm okay with gentle glides downslope, and some gentle upslopes. But nobody needs to be climbing up all the damn time!!

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You're my favourite.

This is why.

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Yes you can!

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most my friends (and myself) are turning 50 this year... this will make fantastic birthday cards, because yes, I am looking forward to it. sort of. ok. no. not really. but you know. maybe? (if my procrastinating self ever gets around to printing it out anyway, I've yet to print a single one. sigh.)

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Oh man, the 40s are amazing, but the 50s are where you really start coming out of your cocoon!

It great!

Keep exercising though

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Yep!!! And I love that picture.

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It is beautiful. I am almost out of my 50s and I feel like I am 25 in my mind. It's worth it

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I used to think downhill only counted in marathons, skiing, and "I'm almost out of gas, please let me get to the gas station!" This little doozie changed my mind. I cracked a smile, and put life on coast....thank you

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LOVE

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Yupp!!

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It worked, and it’s BEAUTIFUL!

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Yes, going uphill is exhausting! Love it, and loved the boob bag too!

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Thank you for this lovely idea/concept. I am 60 and really going to take the time to ponder what you just offered me 🙏🏻 🤩

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My husband is turning 50 this year and has been seriously worrying about it. Gonna send him this. 😉

This week I wrote about dealing with my PTSD via holding a medieval joust for charity in my yard. As one does. 🏰

https://open.substack.com/pub/eleanorvader/p/jousting-with-ptsd?r=2sseuy&utm_medium=ios&utm_campaign=post

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It worked!

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